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Upside of Anger, The

Generally favorable reviews
Based on 36 critic reviews
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Movie Info
Genre(s): Comedy | Drama
Written by: Mike Binder
Directed by: Mike Binder
Release Date:
Theatrical: March 11, 2005
DVD: July 26, 2005
Running Time: 118 minutes, Color
Origin: USA / Germany / UK
Summary
RATING: R for language, sexual situations, brief comic violence and some drug use
Starring Joan Allen, Kevin Costner, Erika Christensen, Evan Rachel Wood, Keri Russell, Alicia Witt, Mike Binder, and Tom Harper
Terry Wolfmeyer (Allen) is a suburban wife and mother whose life takes an unusual turn when her husband unexpectedly disappears. Struggling to deal with his sudden absence, Terry finds herself increasingly at odds with her four headstrong daughters and regularly drowning her anger in alcohol, until she develops an offbeat relationship with her next-door neighbor, Denny (Costner). (New Line Cinema)
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What The Critics Said
All critic scores are converted to a 100-point scale. If a critic does not indicate a score, we assign a score based on the general impression given by the text of the review. Learn more...
Chicago Sun-Times Roger Ebert
I liked these characters precisely because they were not designed to be likable -- or, more precisely, because they were likable in spite of being exasperating, unorganized, self-destructive and impervious to good advice.
Read Full Review >Portland Oregonian M. E. Russell
In "Upside" Allen's marble face acts as the pressure-cooker lid on a hilarious hissy fit.
Read Full Review >Baltimore Sun Michael Sragow
Original, unfailingly entertaining marital-breakup movie.
Read Full Review >Rolling Stone Peter Travers
A fiercely funny human comedy with jokes that sting and leave marks.
Read Full Review >New York Daily News Jami Bernard
In making such an appealing movie about characters who are usually swept under the Hollywood rug, Binder does us all a service.
Read Full Review >Los Angeles Times Carina Chocano
A squarely suburban movie with a distinctly bourgeois-shaped window on the world, but it's genuine and exceptionally well observed.
Read Full Review >The Hollywood Reporter Kirk Honeycutt
Allen turns the character into a tour de force that unleashes an unexpected comedy about compassion and self-loathing.
Read Full Review >Variety Todd McCarthy
Increasingly exhibits a desire to amuse and distract rather than go deep, which ultimately generates disappointment in light of its announced intentions.
Read Full Review >LA Weekly Ella Taylor
One senses that this is an intensely personal project for Binder, who is not as forgiving as he might be toward the mercurial mother. Still, the film is carried by Costner and Allen, who project a chemistry so incrementally built on reluctant camaraderie, they almost seem like siblings.
Read Full Review >The New Yorker David Denby
As this matron on the loose, Allen is rancorously funny.
Read Full Review >Dallas Observer Robert Wilonsky
If Allen owns The Upside of Anger, she is generous enough to loan it to Costner, who, despite the dim, glazed eyes, is more alive here than he's been in years.
Read Full Review >Empire Ian Nathan
Compelling and honest with flashes of dark humour which makes this a meaty comedy drama.
Read Full Review >ReelViews James Berardinelli
The Upside of Anger belongs to Joan Allen (for whom director/screenwriter Mike Binder developed the project).
Read Full Review >Entertainment Weekly Owen Gleiberman
The Upside of Anger is overly therapized, yet Costner and Allen show you what it means not just to play a role but to inhabit it.
Read Full Review >Wall Street Journal Joe Morgenstern
Joan Allen, for whom the role was written, combines severity, which she has often played before, with such levity and verve that she lifts the whole film on the wings of Terry's wrath.
Washington Post Desson Thomson
What's best about "Upside" is its gonzo-sitcom craziness, a situation that lends itself to enjoyable performances.
Read Full Review >Chicago Reader Jonathan Rosenbaum
This loses focus and begins to get a little soggy and moralistic toward the end, but on the whole it's a sensitive and well-observed comedy that's especially adept at handling the characters' rage.
Read Full Review >Seattle Post-Intelligencer Sean Axmaker
The film never earns the irony of the title or offers anything profound in its observations of fractured family dynamics in an atmosphere of lingering resentment, but Allen and Costner enrich and elevate the film and give the growth of their characters a hard-earned gravitas.
Read Full Review >Miami Herald Rene Rodriguez
Costner does things he hasn't done in years: He's funny and playful; he laughs and cracks jokes; and he doesn't look like he's carrying the weight of the universe on his shoulders.
Read Full Review >Philadelphia Inquirer Carrie Rickey
Binder has written himself a scene-stealing supporting role as Shep, sleazeball producer.
Read Full Review >New York Post Lou Lumenick
Binder has allowed Allen, a brilliant actress, to go overboard with Terry's obnoxiousness, just as Brooks (his apparent role model) did with Téa Leoni in "Spanglish."
Read Full Review >USA Today Claudia Puig
The primary upside to The Upside of Anger is the presence of Joan Allen in the lead role.
Read Full Review >The New York Times Dana Stevens
A seriously flawed movie wrapped around two nearly perfect performances.
Read Full Review >The Onion (A.V. Club) Scott Tobias
The film's outsized ambitions are deceptive: Everything here is less than meets the eye.
Read Full Review >The New Republic Stanley Kauffmann
The two leading actors in The Upside of Anger are so good that their performances, even more than the story they are in, keep us interested.
Read Full Review >Christian Science Monitor David Sterritt
What's lacking in The Upside of Anger is a steady sense that we're watching real people cope with real, jolting emotions.
Read Full Review >Slate David Edelstein
A climactic twist that's among the stupidest I've ever seen-almost up there with another Costner movie, "No Way Out," and "The Life of David Gale."
Read Full Review >Austin Chronicle Marjorie Baumgarten
The two fantastic performances by Allen and Costner that anchor The Upside of Anger are the reason to see this contemporary drama.
Read Full Review >The Globe and Mail (Toronto) Rick Groen
Meant to explore anger, all this picture does is manufacture it.
Read Full Review >Washington Post Ann Hornaday
It feels like a retread of several better movies, with a nastier, more bitter edge.
Read Full Review >Village Voice Jessica Winter
The film has exhausted itself with fits of glib hysteria long before its truly stupefying final twist, a stunning betrayal of audience trust.
Read Full Review >What Our Users Said
The average user rating for this movie is 7.2 (out of 10) based on 59 User Votes
Note: User votes are NOT included in the Metascore calculation.
Elaine A. gave it a10:
A selfless performance by Kevin Costner, showing what a versatile actor he is. Wonderful as the stoned has-been baseball player, really funny, tender and warm. A beautifully understated role. Better than Robert De Niro.
Shannon P. gave it a4:
Costner is at his best, delivering a Bull Durham-esque performance and creating a character that is funny and lovable. But the plot twist at the end is like being slapped in the face and called an idiot for watching and believing for 90 minutes that this was a decent film.
Brenda gave it a7:
I loved the interaction between all the characters, but I just couldn't get past the fact that time goes by, life goes on, and this wife does not ever attempt to reach her husband? How unrealistic is that!! He would have had to have been some creep of a husband to simply abandon his wife and daughters with nary a word FOR YEARS??? I don't believe she would have been married to such a man. Did it not ever occur to her that something might have happened to him? This part of the storyline ruined the credibility for me. Also if Kevin Kostner's character is so great of a person, why is he making a play so early in the dissolution of his neighbors' marriage? What kind of morals does he have?
Kari gave it a6:
Strange how all American girls look like Julia Stiles. And the way they scream: "Oh my GAAAAAAEEEEED". Gaaaaaaeeeeed means God, anyone? That´ts the downdise of this and all movies stuffed with this kind of girls. The person who discovered Scarlett Johansen dserves an Oscar for just that. The upside is the great, always great Joan Allen, and the joy to see Costner waves away magic bullet-theories and step into a part that Jeff Bridges can do in his sleep. Kevin pulls is of and is hysterical. Not the most original plot, but to watch these two is the movies worth.
Daryl S. gave it an8:
Finally, a woman who can give THE LOOK like my mother gives THE LOOK. Joan Allen and Kevin Costner are fabulous beyond words, as many others have said before me. Nothing was overstated, which is possibly why some people didn't like it. After all, many movies catering for the lesser kind of American audiences use neon-sign-like devices to let the viewer know wha's going on. Not so here. It's not a formula piece, and that's a good thing. Sure, there are loose ends, and the whole 'missing husband' thing is just not right (or maybe I need to watch it again, to see how she is absolutely convinced he's gone off to Sweden). And yes, the leap from Shep-slapping to wedding-dancing is a bit of a stretch. But for some reason, it left me wanting to know more. And wanting to see a movie again is, for me, a sign that it has worked for me. Sure it might be a whole lot less than perfect. But what the hell? I'm still thinking about it three days on. Besides, I haven't laughed so hard since the 'gunshot in the car' scene in Pulp Fiction.
Scott S. gave it a10:
I had heard rumors that The Upside of Anger was an excellent film, but I had also seen some bad reviews and my wife generally hates Kevin Costner. I never realized what incredible chemistry Allen and Costner could have onscreen. And Keri Russell is a real cutie. I think the plot and the writing of this film are dangerously close to Movie of the Week caliber, but the acting and the shocking twist at the end make this worth seeing. I also thought there was some depth to the writing: anger is not always appropriate but you can't deny how it changes people permanently. I rented this movie on Pay Per View and am watching it again before my 24 hours are up. If you check out this movie, enjoy the manic frenzy of Joan Allen chewing up this role and giving it an Oscar-worthy effort. And revel in having Kevin Costner back again as the friendly, quirky, observant jokester with a drink in his hand and a witty comeback on his lips.
Lauren S. gave it a0:
Huge waste of 2 hours!
