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6.8 out of 10

Generally favorable reviews- based on 19 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 12 out of 19
  2. Negative: 5 out of 19

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  1. JoeK.
    Jan 7, 2005
    10
    Beautiful.
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  2. MelanieA.
    Nov 3, 2004
    9
    This was an exceptional movie that explores the depth of human emotions. It brought Colin Farrel out of his element and showed audiences how diverse of an actor he could be.
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  3. MelanieT.
    Oct 29, 2004
    10
    I thought the movie was beautiful. Love, pain, loyalty, friendship, death, seperation, life, friendship.
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  4. LindaV
    Aug 3, 2004
    10
    The story, the acting the movie is beautiful and heartfelt. It was one of my favorites this year. A story of love undconditional without conventional boundries, it was and inspirational film about the human spirit... see this movie!
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  5. dsmobey
    Nov 12, 2004
    3
    With Sissy Spacek and Robin Wright you'd expect better but there is too much squeezed into a small space and all of the charactor development is sacrificed. Their actions are often inscrutable and confusing. Anachronisms are so rampant that a sense of chronology - critical to this story - is lost. If you are young you may not notice, but to those who lived thru these times I couldn't even spot the decade. Really was hoping for the best but by half way thru it became MST dialogue time for us. My wife loved the book, so she was even more disappointed. Expand
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  6. GregT.
    Nov 8, 2004
    8
    An interesting movie about a gay man, a bisexual man and a likeable woman and their intertwined relationship. Colin Farrell was dripping Irish testosterone as usual and is very likeable in this movie. You have to give this man credit. He can't really be type cast and is a very accomplished actor. He seems to tackle just about any roll that he undertakes.
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  7. CarlC.
    Jul 28, 2004
    7
    Slow paced, but worthwhile. I've not seen Colin Farrell in many movies, but sense he is not just another pretty face-nor just a fresh punk actor. This is a girlie-man movie that worked for me. It probably won't be made into an X-box game. Shucks.
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  8. RichardL.
    Aug 4, 2004
    5
    Unlike the novel, this screen play is weak and missing the subconscious insight of each character.
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  9. RayS.
    Jan 17, 2005
    6
    The movies message was that families can come in all shapes and sizes -and sexual preferences- a plea for tolerance-the acting is good-it got a bit too warm and fuzzy at the end.
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  10. Mark
    Feb 16, 2007
    10
    A very touching and moving film. Colin Farrell did an outstanding job; his character, though not unflawed, saw the best in people. There was an innocence about him. My favorite seen is when Colin's character, Bobby, consoles Jonathan, played by Dallas Roberts, about his "bruise" (scene 21 on disc). Very believable; they have a great connection which started at a young age that some others could only wish they have. Expand
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  11. [Anonymous]
    Nov 5, 2004
    3
    Lousy, certainly not one of the more entertaining, or enthralling films I have seen lately.
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  12. JudyT.
    Nov 9, 2004
    3
    A waste of some good actors time and energies. A movie about some trivial people trying to make itself moving and important.
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  13. VinceH.
    Nov 16, 2004
    5
    Excellent acting in this film (despite the over-praise Ferrell has been getting, the best acting in this film comes from Robin Wright Penn), but my criticism of this film is the same as a lot that I have read here. The script is my main problem; it is too talky and feels too "adapted", unlike say David Hare's script of Cunningham's "The Hours". The characters talk and act as if characters in an indie character film and not real life. I know that sounds vague but it's the only way I can describe it. But this movie does have one of the most moving last 10 minutes of any all year, and the last scene is heartbreaking. Expand
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Metascore

Mixed or average reviews - based on 34 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 17 out of 34
  2. Negative: 1 out of 34
  1. Reviewed by: David Ansen
    70
    Packs an irresistible emotional punch.
  2. Cunningham's depth of feeling transformed the book's premise into something beyond sniggers or camp, and the best moments in the movie, which was directed by theater veteran Michael Mayer in his film debut and adapted by Cunningham, have a similar emotional charge.
  3. Reviewed by: David Rooney
    80
    Driven by soulful performances and by a genuine sense of wonder for the unpredictable permutations of love and family.