Metascore
82 out of 100

Universal acclaim - based on 36 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 32 out of 36
  2. Negative: 1 out of 36
  1. 100
    A friend asked: "Wouldn't you love to attend a wedding like that?" In a way, I felt I had. Yes, I began to feel absorbed in the experience. A few movies can do that, can slip you out of your mind and into theirs.
  2. Intriguing, disturbing, uplifting evocation. In fact, to watch this film is to engage in participatory art -- for better and for worse, through sickness and in health, we're drawn deeply in.
  3. 100
    Hathaway carries you on an emotional whirligig that can be horrifying and funny, hopeful and devastating.
  4. A film that is both deceptively modest and deeply resonant.
  5. A triumph -- Demme's finest work since "The Silence of the Lambs," and a movie that tingles with life.
  6. True to the characters and their conflicts, the resolution is neither neat nor expected. True to Demme, it's honest and generous and very human.
  7. I've never seen a movie with this mixture of fullness and desolation. Rachel Getting Married is a masterpiece.
  8. 100
    It may be painful at times, but Rachel Getting Married sure is one heck of a party.
  9. Reviewed by: Matthew Sorrento
    90
    As successful as this family drama is, Demme proves himself to be quite a multitasker. With the skill of an ethnographer and the passion of a sentimentalist, he celebrates the traditions of marriage in a handful of tender set pieces.
  10. Best and most unexpected of all, Rachel Getting Married dares to mix the bitter with the sweet. It understands that life-altering situations like weddings not only bring out the worst in human behavior but also the finest.
  11. 90
    It's a small movie, and in some ways a very sad one, but it has an undeniable and authentic vitality, an exuberance of spirit, that feels welcome and rare.
  12. Reviewed by: David Ansen
    90
    Most of the time, Demme's deliberately unstable mixture of moods and genres produces electric results. Rachel Getting Married takes a familiar subject--the raw nerves of American family life with--and draws fresh blood.
  13. Reviewed by: Ronnie Scheib
    90
    Brimming with energy, elan and the unpredictability of his "Something Wild," Jonathan Demme's triumphant Rachel Getting Married may just lay the wedding film to rest, being such a hard act to follow.
  14. 88
    The acting is of the highest caliber. Winger, magnificent and too long between films, is a volcano of repressed anger.
  15. A triumph of ambience, Rachel Getting Married is the first narrative feature since the 1980s from director Jonathan Demme that feels like a party--bittersweet, but a party nonetheless.
  16. 88
    A portrait of a family reeling with pain and resentment -- and rising to the challenge of dealing with it head-on.
  17. 88
    As Kym, Hathaway runs an astonishing gamut of emotions, from anger to fragility and from hurt to regret - without ever seeming actress-y, like Nicole Kidman. Start clearing that mantelpiece, Anne.
  18. Jonathan Demme's superb rule-bending, heartrending and family-mending drama - ends with a wedding, it resists conventions as brazenly as does the bride's sister.
  19. 83
    The longer it goes on, the more you're swept up into the jet stream of good feeling.
  20. Reviewed by: Deborah Young
    80
    A film whose lightness of touch rides a wave of family conflict to perfectly balance smiles and tears.
  21. Reviewed by: Nick De Semlyen
    80
    One of Hollywood's forgotten masters and one of its brightest new actresses team for what could well be an Oscar wild card.
  22. Reviewed by: Dana Stevens
    80
    Hathaway transcends her usual complacency in this role and resists the temptation of using Kym's (and her own) wounded-bird appeal to let the character off the hook.
  23. The life that swirls around Kym before, during and after her sister's densely populated, wonderfully detailed wedding seems to have been caught on the fly in all its sweetness, sadness and joy. (In its free-form style the film constitutes an elaborate homage to Robert Altman.)
  24. The sprawling cast, the naturalistic, overlapping dialogue (here by screenwriter Jenny Lumet, daughter of director Sidney) and the swirling action: it seemed pure Robert Altman.
  25. 80
    It's not a terribly disciplined exercise--the rehearsal dinner and wedding ceremony go on so long I felt like I was watching "The Deer Hunter"--but the performances are outstanding, especially Hathaway's and Debra Winger's in a small but devastating turn as her chilly, resentful mother.
  26. The upshot to a ticking bomb is that it only explodes the once, but Rachel's sister, Kym (Hathaway), goes off again and again.
  27. Reviewed by: Claudia Puig
    75
    At its best in scenes featuring Hathaway's mercurial character. It's a triumphant and darkly nuanced role for her and a departure from the more lighthearted comedic performances she has given.
  28. 75
    The movie's few false notes come from Lumet's script, which can be overly explanatory. Because Demme is opting for present-tense realism, the characters are forced to fill us in on who did what when to whom, why, and how.
  29. 75
    At times, the movie gets bogged down in minutia but the emotions evoked and captured are as honest and brutal as one is likely to find on film.
  30. With a minimum of actorly fuss, Winger shows us the rage and hurt inside this overcontrolled woman. It's a great piece of acting – high drama at the service of the highest talent.
  31. 70
    The picture may end a little too breezily, but Demme knows we have to be left with some hope for these wandering souls. Someday, they'll find their way home; it just may not be the same thing as going home.
  32. Alfred Hitchcock once said, "Drama is life with the dull bits left out." Well, Rachel Getting Married is drama with the dull bits left in.
  33. Reviewed by: Ella Taylor
    60
    A middlebrow domestic drama beating its wings against an experimental frame.
  34. A fine ensemble piece, but a maddening and unjustified length.
  35. 50
    A minor work, but so menaced by distress that the characters take every opportunity to dance the dark away.
  36. Reviewed by: Richard Schickel
    30
    The result is a mess. Kym, in Hathaway's unsympathetic performance, is an annoyingly sour observer of the proceedings, a time bomb everyone hopes will not explode before the marriage is completed.
User Score

Mixed or average reviews- based on 187 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 51 out of 118
  2. Negative: 54 out of 118
  1. SkipYoung
    3
    It tries to be Cinema Verite, but I never believed it. So many of the emotional reactions struck me as implausible and melodramatic: Rachel’s hysterical reaction to Kym’s dinner toast, Dad’s nearly operatic reaction to seeing Ethan’s plate, Rachel storming out of the beauty salon, Kym demanding to be maid of honor, etc. These are drama queens on steroids. It’s annoying - not entertaining. As for the wedding, it has a constant aura of putting on airs. Look how untraditional and open-minded we are. In trying too hard not to appear self-consciously eccentric, it comes off as false. I would have appreciated at least one of the characters acknowledging how different this wedding is, rather than everyone acting like it’s the most normal thing in the world. The film doesn’t need to apologize for it, but it shouldn’t pretend either. I will say that Debra Winger is perfect in her small role. I’m embarrassed to say, I spent the whole movie looking for her, and left thinking, “whoever played the mother did a great job”. Full Review »
  2. I rather have gone to an actual wedding and funeral over watching this tedious piece of crap. The meaning of this story is completely overseen by the pointless dragged out scenes. Full Review »
  3. Jonathan Demme is an expert in creating humanistic environments and immersing the viewer into the film. He did that in "The Silence of the Lambs" and repeats his technique here in a brilliant manner. Full Review »