Metascore
82 out of 100

Universal acclaim - based on 36 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 32 out of 36
  2. Negative: 1 out of 36
  1. 100
    A friend asked: "Wouldn't you love to attend a wedding like that?" In a way, I felt I had. Yes, I began to feel absorbed in the experience. A few movies can do that, can slip you out of your mind and into theirs.
  2. Intriguing, disturbing, uplifting evocation. In fact, to watch this film is to engage in participatory art -- for better and for worse, through sickness and in health, we're drawn deeply in.
  3. 100
    Hathaway carries you on an emotional whirligig that can be horrifying and funny, hopeful and devastating.
  4. A film that is both deceptively modest and deeply resonant.
  5. A triumph -- Demme's finest work since "The Silence of the Lambs," and a movie that tingles with life.
  6. True to the characters and their conflicts, the resolution is neither neat nor expected. True to Demme, it's honest and generous and very human.
  7. I've never seen a movie with this mixture of fullness and desolation. Rachel Getting Married is a masterpiece.
  8. 100
    It may be painful at times, but Rachel Getting Married sure is one heck of a party.
  9. Reviewed by: Matthew Sorrento
    90
    As successful as this family drama is, Demme proves himself to be quite a multitasker. With the skill of an ethnographer and the passion of a sentimentalist, he celebrates the traditions of marriage in a handful of tender set pieces.
  10. Best and most unexpected of all, Rachel Getting Married dares to mix the bitter with the sweet. It understands that life-altering situations like weddings not only bring out the worst in human behavior but also the finest.
  11. 90
    It’s a small movie, and in some ways a very sad one, but it has an undeniable and authentic vitality, an exuberance of spirit, that feels welcome and rare.
  12. Reviewed by: David Ansen
    90
    Most of the time, Demme's deliberately unstable mixture of moods and genres produces electric results. Rachel Getting Married takes a familiar subject--the raw nerves of American family life with--and draws fresh blood.
  13. Reviewed by: Ronnie Scheib
    90
    Brimming with energy, elan and the unpredictability of his "Something Wild," Jonathan Demme's triumphant Rachel Getting Married may just lay the wedding film to rest, being such a hard act to follow.
  14. 88
    The acting is of the highest caliber. Winger, magnificent and too long between films, is a volcano of repressed anger.
  15. A triumph of ambience, Rachel Getting Married is the first narrative feature since the 1980s from director Jonathan Demme that feels like a party--bittersweet, but a party nonetheless.
  16. 88
    A portrait of a family reeling with pain and resentment -- and rising to the challenge of dealing with it head-on.
  17. 88
    As Kym, Hathaway runs an astonishing gamut of emotions, from anger to fragility and from hurt to regret - without ever seeming actress-y, like Nicole Kidman. Start clearing that mantelpiece, Anne.
  18. Jonathan Demme's superb rule-bending, heartrending and family-mending drama - ends with a wedding, it resists conventions as brazenly as does the bride's sister.
  19. 83
    The longer it goes on, the more you're swept up into the jet stream of good feeling.
User Score

Mixed or average reviews- based on 198 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 51 out of 118
  2. Negative: 54 out of 118
  1. SkipYoung
    3
    It tries to be Cinema Verite, but I never believed it. So many of the emotional reactions struck me as implausible and melodramatic: Rachel
  2. I rather have gone to an actual wedding and funeral over watching this tedious piece of crap. The meaning of this story is completely overseen by the pointless dragged out scenes. Full Review »
  3. Jonathan Demme is an expert in creating humanistic environments and immersing the viewer into the film. He did that in "The Silence of the Lambs" and repeats his technique here in a brilliant manner. Full Review »