Metascore
43 out of 100

Mixed or average reviews - based on 30 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 6 out of 30
  2. Negative: 4 out of 30
  1. A smart, sharply observed, highly affable look at contemporary relationships that finally injects a little life in the stagnating genre.
  2. If a movie that uses the word "relationship" 7,000 times puts your teeth on edge, stay away.
  3. 63
    The film makes coupling look less like bliss and more like an exhausting series of skirmishes that can send one party scurrying into infidelity or out the door in search of something better.
  4. 63
    A better than adequate date movie.
  5. Reviewed by: Ken Fox
    63
    The cast, however, is great -- Crudup and Duchovny in particular share a fun chemistry that's just toilet-obsessed enough to be absolutely believable.
  6. 63
    Its strength is its humor, which is half-"Seinfeld" and half-"Sex in the City." There's a reason why those shows ran for only 30 minutes each - it's difficult to sustain comedic momentum for longer, as becomes apparent here.
  7. Reviewed by: Liz Beardsworth
    60
    Freundlich's intelligent, very funny take on male-female relationships manages the not inconsiderable feat of being both jaded and appealingly fresh.
  8. Reviewed by: Jessica Reaves
    50
    Trust the Man could easily carry the following subtitle: "Men Who Behave Like Petulant, Spoiled Children and the Women Who Decide It's Easier to Love Them As-Is Than To Try to Turn Them Into Grownups."
  9. Offers a passably entertaining bridge between empty-headed summer fare and fall awards hunting.
  10. Does the world really need another movie about a married guy wandering blindly into an affair, or the married gal who can't decide whether to remain faithful or fool around?
  11. Superficially entertaining romantic romp.
  12. Reviewed by: Claudia Puig
    50
    Trust-- and the genre itself -- needs to dump the stale formula and embrace reality and reinvention.
  13. A botched adult romantic comedy that strands its leading player, and its audience, in a wearying, sitcom-slight battle of the sexes.
  14. Reviewed by: Toddy Burton
    50
    A relationship dramedy wields little power without an emotional punch. And when the theatrical (literally) climax attempts bold emotionality, one can't help but wince.
  15. The actors gamely keep up their spirits, but the male characters are too one-dimensional and the female characters too bizarrely divorced from reality to be at all engaging.
  16. Reviewed by: John Anderson
    50
    For those who appreciate the Woody Allen view of New York but would prefer fewer neurotics, Trust the Man provides a loving take on bourgeois Manhattan contentment that's usually only found in episodes of "Will & Grace."
  17. 50
    Trust the Man quickly begins to feel hopelessly derivative of other, better movies.
  18. 50
    It wasn't so bad, aside from the god-awful ending; at the very least Freundlich manages to come up with funnier jokes than the ossified one-liners decorating Allen's recent movies.
  19. Can these banal relationships between undifferentiated lovelies be saved?
  20. Has some good laughs courtesy of its cast -- but they're basically papering over a script that's masquerading as urbane and trenchant, when it's really self-involved and didactic and more than a little foolish.
  21. The cast tries hard and a sprinkling of laughs results, but the project is defeated by a concept that is not very novel, a script that is not especially witty, direction that is neither sharp nor insightful and one-note characters that are simply not very interesting.
  22. It's possible that a smart, insightful, sharp-edged comedy could have been written around these characters, but Trust The Man isn't it.
  23. 42
    Trust The Man presents itself as a funny, insightful Manhattan relationship comedy in Woody Allen mode, but morphs into the phoniest of Hollywood rom-coms.
  24. 40
    Emerges a weakling comedy of manners.
  25. Ms. Moore is nicely lighted, but she too is poorly served by Mr. Freundlich's unfunny, unfocused screenplay, which basically stitches together a series of short scenes of four people whining in various combinations.
  26. Reviewed by: Joanne Kaufman
    40
    Does not bring a single fresh, inventive idea to the table.
  27. Reviewed by: Ethan Alter
    38
    Trust the Man mainly feels like the work of a New Yorker who hasn't left his trendy neighborhood in ten years.
  28. "Man" is like a sour, half-formed version of a TV sitcom full of dislikable, disconnected characters.
  29. 25
    This is a movie that's built around characters the audience is bound to find more insufferable than anyone does in the movie itself.
  30. Reviewed by: Robert Wilonsky
    20
    Writer-director Bart Freundlich (Moore's husband) has nothing to say and nowhere to go with this material, except to the most contrived ending this side of a "Will & Grace" episode.
User Score

Mixed or average reviews- based on 17 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 7 out of 10
  2. Mixed: 0 out of 10
  3. Negative: 3 out of 10
  1. RobertD.
    10
    One of the funniest film that I ve seen in last years. Smart, romantic and extremely ironic and funny. I loved it. David Duchovny is one of the best actor ever. Full Review »
  2. MegM.
    8
    Enjoyable movie, funny cast, a little implausible, but life is often implausible today. A lot of it rang very true, especially the relationships between the two guys and the one between the two women. Full Review »
  3. DigitalFat
    7
    Certainly, it has its flaws (the son of Moore & Duchovny's character’s is an annoyance). Duchovny should be in more movies, because he's quite good in this. It is a good movie for adults -- not the MyTube YouSpace set (wait for the next bit of Lindsay Lohan drivel). Full Review »