You Hurt My Feelings

Name: You Hurt My Feelings
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: May 26, 2023
Duration: 93 min
Rating: 82
Cast: Bryan Reynoso, Claudia Robinson, Doug Moe, Erica Matlin, Julia Louis-Dreyfus

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Movie Details & Credits

A24 | Release Date: May 26, 2023 | Not Rated

Starring: Bryan Reynoso, Claudia Robinson, Doug Moe, Erica Matlin, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Karolena Theresa, Lynnsey Lewis, Owen Teague, Spike Einbinder, Tobias Menzies, Trey Santiago-Hudson, Walter Brandes

Summary: A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Director: Nicole Holofcener

Genre(s): Drama, Comedy

Rating: Not Rated

Runtime: 93 min

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Odie Henderson

May 25, 2023

The summer season rarely has room for a nice, adult comedy like You Hurt My Feelings. It is counter-programming of the finest order and one of the year’s best films. Read full review

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Alex Saveliev

Jan 27, 2023

On the surface, the plot is simple, but the nuances, keen observations, silences between words, the humanity of it all, and the ease with which the filmmaker effortlessly navigates turbulent currents subtly transform the feature into a complex drama. There are no heroes or villains, no good or bad people, just folks trying to figure themselves and each other out. Read full review

Glenn Whipp

May 25, 2023

Yes, You Hurt My Feelings explores the incident of its title and the risks and limits of total honesty in a relationship. But it’s also a funny and incisive look at middle-age malaise Read full review

Collider Ross Bonaime

Feb 3, 2023

You Hurt My Feelings is the type of film that reminds us why Holofcener is one of the best writers of comedies today, and that her ability to write films with such small consequences can often feel like a massive achievement, as these are situations that feel honest and human and wholly earnest. Read full review

Amber Wilkinson

Jan 26, 2023

While Holofcener doesn’t ultimately dispute that it’s nice to be nice, she does suggest that it’s worth remembering constant positivity has its own negatives. Read full review

Mick LaSalle

May 23, 2023

In its modestly comic way, the movie delves into the question of when it’s better to lie than tell the truth. Read full review

Martin Carr

Jan 31, 2023

Tried, tested, and uninspiring - this four way relationship drama goes over old ground. Read full review

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sarasola

May 27, 2023

Such good writing, and very funny.. laughed out loud so many times. Explored great concepts around relationships & what you build your self-esteem on. Great cast & performances too.