Metascore
43 out of 100

Mixed or average reviews - based on 34 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 4 out of 34
  2. Negative: 5 out of 34
  1. 70
    I'm fully prepared to hear people write off Dear John as corny, sappy, a movie for chicks. But I'd counter that Hallström's old-fashioned idealism about art and emotion is the more important quality shining through Dear John.
  2. 70
    Dear John carefully distills selected elements of human experience and reduces them to a sweet and digestible syrup. It may not be strong medicine, but it delivers an effective, pleasing dose of pure sentiment and vicarious heartache.
  3. 63
    There's an audience for old-fashioned romance, and Dear John will please most of it.
  4. Fulfills its mission, which is to be a crowd-pleasing tearjerker.
  5. Reviewed by: Helen O'Hara
    60
    A touching melodrama illuminated by a solid turn from Tatum.
  6. The biggest surprise here is Tatum, whose butch reticence has never been put to better use: His saddest farewell isn't to his lady, but to a man even more uncommunicative than he is.
  7. Ironically, they make the bond between John and Savannah look so natural that the ''dear John'' turn in their relationship makes even less sense than it does in the book.
  8. 58
    Hallström's approach to the material is tasteful and restrained to a fault.
  9. The film, while heartfelt and directed by multiple-Oscar nominee Lasse Hallstrom, is dramatically stillborn.
  10. 50
    Dear John exists only to coddle the sentiments of undemanding dreamers, and plunge us into a world where the only evil is the interruption of the good.
  11. I truly wish Dear John were a better, less shamelessly manipulative movie, but a couple of the actors got me through it alive. One is Amanda Seyfried.
  12. The film has two curious subplots and supporting performances that feel tacked on rather than organically part of it.
  13. Reviewed by: Amy Biancolli
    50
    You promised only a slim plot, tidy morals and lovers with quaking loins. It was fun while it lasted.
  14. Reviewed by: Claudia Puig
    50
    You're more likely to roll your eyes than swoon over this slow-moving and far-fetched love story.
  15. Dear Nicholas Sparks, There's no easy way to say this. But with Dear John, the latest of the five films made so far from your sentimental, best-selling novels, I think our relationship is in trouble.
  16. 50
    Unfortunately for Tatum and Seyfried, Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams did a far more convincing version of this same basic dance in "The Notebook.''
  17. 50
    The appeal is there for those who crave formulaic romantic drama, but there's little of interest for a wider audience.
  18. The ending of Dear John feels manufactured and patently false. Seyfried tries to sell it, but you can tell that she's having a hard time believing the words coming out of her mouth.
  19. If you're just hoping for a little easy escapism, bring your tissues and leave your high standards at home.
  20. There's no real depth or texture to the characters of any sort, sentimental or otherwise, and I say that as someone who can be brought to tears by a Hallmark commercial.
  21. Reviewed by: Brian Lowry
    50
    Ultimately, the story feels as if it's killing time before throwing the next hurdle at the couple.
  22. Halfway through the movie, I decided a better title for this weepie contraption would be "The Hurt Letter."
  23. Awash in mawkish sentimentality, Dear John still will move you deeply - if you're a 12-year-old girl.
  24. Reviewed by: Aaron Hillis
    40
    "Chocolat" director Lasse Hallström's tastefully old-fashioned melodrama has exactly one objective: yanking gallons of cathartic tears out of your face by any means necessary.
  25. As flat as the Carolina coastal region in which it's set, Dear John features two gorgeous young actors playing denuded characters in search of more narrative garb.
  26. Reviewed by: Dana Stevens
    40
    It's the cinematic equivalent of a plastic-covered couch under a "Bless This House" sampler. And that's not a bad thing, for audiences who have a high threshold for sentiment and a low one for dramatic conflict.
  27. Reviewed by: Mary Pols
    40
    This isn't a love story, it's a misery story that drags on, not to a dramatic conclusion but a tepid moment.
  28. What happens when a genuinely dear John gets a Dear John? For the answer, just meander--no need for running or walking--to your local multiplex. That's where Dear John, based on the Nicholas Sparks novel of the same name, will be meandering on its downward path from sweetly tender to terminally turgid.
  29. 40
    This terminally sappy romance delivers heartache, sacrifice, a make-out scene in the pouring rain, and not one but two autistic characters.
  30. 38
    Hallstrom and his low-heat stars can't find the pulse of this corpse.
  31. He is meant to be brooding, I think, but Tatum's vague features read more "meathead" than anguished young lover. He has to carry the film, but he's the least interesting thing going on here.
  32. 25
    As for the ladies who think any kind of chick flick is preferable to football, be careful what you wish for.
  33. 25
    Dear John is the sort of movie that gives tearjerkers a bad name.
User Score

Mixed or average reviews- based on 61 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 8 out of 17
  2. Negative: 4 out of 17
  1. PP.
    0
    What the heck was this all about? What the heck was the ending? Worst movie I've seen in years, although I loved the Notebook, and also Amanda - I guess I would have to primarily fault the writer and director - don't waste your money or time on this. The movie starts off strong and carries for quite a while, but then totally falls apart into a complete waste of film. Full Review »
  2. BS
    3
    This is the worst love story i have seen in years. I loved the notebook and all of the other work Mr.Sparks is affiliated with but really, How can you have a love movie without love? This ENTIRE movie could have mad a 20 minute short film and been so much better. Horrible. The only redeeming quality the film had was the father son relationship. Otherwise just plain boring, un-foucused, however, It did have a good book. The theater i was at was packed before i went in. The Guys coming out were PISSED. The women were laughing because it was so bad. Yes a few fell in love with it. But i would say 90% did not. Full Review »
  3. ChadS.
    6
    In the best tradition of wartime romances, the woman on the homefront can't commit to celibacy, so she writes a Dear John letter calling it quits with her soldier boy overseas. It's a plot point, in which the moviegoer's sympathy is stacked in the man's favor. Like with any war film, "Dear John" dramatizes the combat soldier's plight to stay alive. He's fighting for you and me, and her; he's a hero, and deserves to be treated like one. Obviously, his is the greater sacrifice, since no woman ever died from lack of sex. In such love triangle situations, nobody roots for the other guy(the guy who lets other guys fight in his place), no matter how lonely the woman claims to be. She's a slut, pure and simple, because we identify with the combat soldier. When John Tyree(Channing Tatum) gets hit by enemy fire, the moviegoer's hates Savannah(Amanda Seyfried) even more; her betrayal is amplified by the soldier's fleeting relationship with the physical world. To make matters worse, John suspects(and we do, too) that Amanda's new lover is his rival from the beach. "Dear John", however, treats its female character fairly, since John's injury turns out not to be a life-threatening one. There's no cause for Amanda to well-up with guilty tears. And surprise, surprise, John's replacement is Tim(Henry Thomas), a man with terminal cancer, defusing the moviegoer's inclination to hate Amanda somewhat for her disloyalty. In fact, "Dear John" quite suddenly puts John in a bad light, because it's in his best interest if Tim died, and get Amanda back. "Dear John" is subversive in this sense: a reunion between John and Amanda constitutes an unhappy ending, unless the moviegoer is heartless enough to root for a cancer patient to perish. (Exactly what are John's motivations for his seemingly magnanimous act of generosity toward Tim's affliction?) Full Review »