Metascore
85 out of 100

Universal acclaim - based on 31 Critics

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 28 out of 31
  2. Negative: 0 out of 31
  1. 100
    It's rare to get a good movie about the touchy adult relationship of a sister and brother. Rarer still for the director to be more fascinated by the process than the outcome. This is one of the best movies of the year.
  2. 70
    Beautifully acted, minutely observed story.
  3. 100
    There may be bigger, costlier, weighter films this year. There's none lovelier.
  4. Wittily written and deliciously acted, Lonergan's debut film is a clear cut above the average.
  5. Beautiful, compassionate, articulate domestic drama.
  6. Melancholy little gem of a movie.
  7. With warm humor and perceptive writing, director Kenneth Lonergan displays a gift for creating realistic characters and a compelling story.
  8. 100
    A humanistic gem of a movie, with unforgettable performances from Linney and Ruffalo.
  9. A small but moving film that gets the details right (life in a sleepy burg, sidewalk chats between old high school pals) and gets at the heart of human longing for family, for love.
  10. 88
    One of the most rewarding and engaging movies of the year. Don't miss it.
  11. 91
    It's a movie about having a sibling and all of the pain, joy, love and anxiety that that entails: a movie, in other words, for almost everyone.
  12. Honest, poignant and very funny, full of memorable, moving moments.
  13. 70
    A subtle and often surprising study of the relationship between damaged adult siblings, full of mordant humor and dramatic invention.
  14. It's a compassionate story about what makes people tick and what really matters.
  15. A drama that embraces the ambiguities and contradictions of family ties and human nature in all its irrational glory.
  16. Reviewed by: Jay Carr
    100
    Satisfying in every respect, it's a piece of blue-collar chamber music, never treating the characters cheaply, allowing them a complex entwinement of emotions.
  17. Reviewed by: David Edelstein
    100
    The best American movie of the year. Has a subtext so powerful that it reaches out and pulls you under. Even when the surface is tranquil, you know in your guts what's at stake.
  18. Reviewed by: David Ansen
    100
    Few films have explored the complicated bonds of love and resentment between brother and sister with such delightful honesty.
  19. Writer/director Lonergan succeeds at capturing eloquently the disappointments of growing up and growing old. But he isn't always successful at reining in the schmaltz.
  20. Visually flat and uninteresting and too often feels like a (leisurely paced) filmed play.
  21. Reviewed by: Richard Schickel
    90
    Maybe these lives are, objectively speaking, inconsequential. But they have a resonance that big, sappy "relationship" pictures ought to envy.
  22. 85
    It's the sum of things not spoken, things too painful to express, that's the heart of this quietly moving drama.
  23. 90
    In this modest but brilliant little movie, we find ourselves immersed in life itself.
  24. (Linney and Ruffalo) are just beautiful enough, in fact, to be in the movies and still remain convincing as authentic folk, and their performances are tremendously moving.
  25. 60
    Seems like a TV movie. A well-written, sympathetically acted TV movie, to be sure, but so timid and clumsy in its deployment of picture, sound, and editing that you have to wonder if executive producer Martin Scorsese bothered to give notes.
  26. Reviewed by: Emanuel Levy
    90
    A sensitive, intimate, enormously touching drama.
  27. 90
    One of the best pictures I've seen all year. Funny, touching, even inspiring at times.
  28. The best drama you've seen about Anytown, USA, since "American Beauty."
  29. 90
    It's a rare thrill -- in this cinematically hollow year.
  30. Reviewed by: Carla Meyer
    100
    It's simply a quiet and heartbreaking look at the dynamics of one family. That's the beauty of it.
  31. Reviewed by: Ronnie Scheib
    60
    Lonergan's validation of big-minded small-town life has been neatened up to the point of blandness.
User Score

Universal acclaim- based on 43 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 23 out of 26
  2. Mixed: 0 out of 26
  3. Negative: 3 out of 26
  1. This film was so simple in such a perfect sense. The unpretentiousness of the film leads to the deeper greatness that can be overwhelmingly emotionally touched by viewers. The love, the warmth, the bond everything about the film was so true that it somehow connects to our lives one way or another. A Beautiful Film. Full Review »
  2. BKM
    8
    A smart, complex and honest look at the ties that bind siblings together for better or worse. Linney and Ruffalo are terrific as a brother and sister working out their issues and the film is constantly challenging our preconceptions about who these people are and what drives their behaviors. Full Review »
  3. A wonderful tender film that beautifully explores the complex relationship between a brother, sister, and child. Has a small town authenticity rarely seen in films, and has left me waiting patiently for over a decade to see Mr. Lonergan's follow up. A streak which will be broken next week when the infamous and anticipated "Margaret" reaches the big screen. Full Review »