• Record Label: Republic
  • Release Date: Aug 23, 2019
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  1. Sep 3, 2019
    3
    it's repetitive, very few creativity, no talent at all. I'll never understand why she has become so famous.
  2. Aug 23, 2019
    3
    I used to love her stuff but most songs on this album seem amateurish and forgettable. She's regressed with this one
  3. Sep 9, 2019
    3
    Meeh I mean her voice is so boring and ins't Magic. Pls get another job girll. I know u r very smart with ur business strategy, but this ins't enough u know
  4. Aug 31, 2019
    3
    Creo que pudo haber sido mejor, pues algunas canciones si son muy rítmicas creo que solo destacan dos en todo el álbum
  5. Sep 1, 2019
    3
    It’s very cringy to hear a woman in her 30’s still sugar coat **** I gave it it an honest chance and thought her sound was going to change but sounds like her older work and I’m not a fan.
  6. Sep 1, 2019
    3
    Sounds like a kids bop album. She is way too old to be writing lyrics like “In my feelings more than Drake” or “Cause shade never made anybody less gay”. The bests songs on this album were mediocre at best cause thats the only kind of music she knows how to make.
  7. Sep 1, 2019
    3
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. I used to love Taylor Swift songs. The best is 1989 album, this was a mess. Record-breaking sales because of good marketing strategy does not mean it's good. Swifties are delusional. Expand
  8. Sep 2, 2019
    3
    Not what i was waiting ,sorry Taylor but lana is greatness...waiting for new albums
  9. Jan 11, 2020
    3
    Álbum ruim, uma estética Tumblr muito ultrapassada. Além disso as músicas não são legais, e não trouxe nada inovador, não supera e nem vai superar o icônico 1989.
  10. Feb 25, 2021
    3
    Taylor Swift at her rock bottom. Lover has only about 5 good songs (the best highlight being false god and title track) but the rest is 1989 rejects and classic corny, cheesy Taylor. not good.
  11. Jul 4, 2021
    3
    this is definitely one of the most boring albums I've ever listend, and taylor's wort project. it's sad that there are some amazing songs like lover, soon you'll get better, afterglow and cruel summer, lost among a bunch of fillers and boring as hell songs.
    I'll never understand why there's 18 tracks on this album, when it could have easily been a 8 tracks ep. It's just a complete disappointment.
  12. Sep 3, 2019
    2
    meh, as usual. like an unseasoned, undercooked chicken breast. honestly you don’t get more basic and boring than this.
  13. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    On an album premised on leaving the past behind, these are the songs that suggest a way forward. In recent years, it’s been clear that the less Swift sets her own terms, the more challenges she’ll face. And so on “Lover,” she’s back to steering.
  14. Sep 3, 2019
    2
    Album went no where. It’s just repeat of the same old same old. I loved I forgot that you existed and that’s how I feel about this album.
  15. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    “I Forgot You Existed” and “The Man” are the only songs I could listen to from beginning to end without skipping parts. The album as a whole is a disappointment and a downgrade from her work on Reputation which had more attitude and originality.
  16. Jun 22, 2020
    2
    Just having noticed this was her most critically-acclaimed album to date, I gave it a listen and was appalled at the rating. She is in her 30s, a grown woman, and was more mature at age 15.

    The lyrics are embarrassing and tone-deaf; she waited over a decade to make any kind of sociopolitical statement (or any statement at all, in fact, that wasn’t directly pertaining to her being
    Just having noticed this was her most critically-acclaimed album to date, I gave it a listen and was appalled at the rating. She is in her 30s, a grown woman, and was more mature at age 15.

    The lyrics are embarrassing and tone-deaf; she waited over a decade to make any kind of sociopolitical statement (or any statement at all, in fact, that wasn’t directly pertaining to her being victimized and purportedly wronged by the public, other famous women and her string of exes alike), and her contribution? “YOU NEED TO CAAAALM DOWN, YOU'RE BEING TOOOO LOUD.” If only
    Taylor took her own highly patronizing advice and shut her offkey mouth.

    And, unsurprisingly, the lead single, “Me!” is another juvenile egocentric embarrassment, as observed via the title alone. There’s a very good reason she stopped winning Grammys as of her two most recent records; the whining child persona is not charming, and content remains as dull as Swift herself. Her only saving grace thus far has been decent lyrics, so given she is perpetually 30 going on 13, it appears her expiration date has finally arrived.
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  17. Aug 23, 2019
    2
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Falta autenticidade e maturidade. A Taylor, sem dúvidas, evoluiu em performances, mas a musicalidade continua sendo infantil tal quanto às anteriores. Ela tem um grande potencial e eu adoraria vê-la em pleno exercício do seu melhor. Expand
  18. Aug 23, 2019
    2
    The Lover album by Taylor Swift is one of her worst, the production kinda sucks, the lyrics are kinda childish, and i swear a couple songs sound the same. I will say this The Man, The Archer, MS&THP , Cornelia Street And London Boy are good songs.
  19. Aug 23, 2019
    2
    Um album cansativo, com sonoridades repetitivas...Isso é o que podemos esperar de Taylor Swift, uma artista cliché, previsível, a mais fabricada que essa indústria já viu, não arrisca, não inova, creio que está na hora de sair de cena e deixar a imagem descansar por longos 7 anos de intervalo na carreira.
  20. Aug 24, 2019
    2
    This album is just not it. I have become a fan of taylor swift after she released 1989, and I also absolutely loved reputation. This album has a lot of repetitive beats and melodies and very weak lyrics compared to taylor’s songwriting talent. A very disappointing work of art. Would not recommend at all.
  21. Aug 24, 2019
    2
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Isn't so good cause' the rithm is a little bit old, It would's be better if'll got a R&B most lover Expand
  22. Aug 30, 2019
    2
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. I give this album 2, because it has only 2 good songs. I think this is spravedlivo. Expand
  23. Aug 30, 2019
    2
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. No me gustó, siento que Taylor pudo haber dado más, todos los singles tienen el mismo sonido. Bah. Expand
  24. Aug 30, 2019
    2
    Even the bright spots in the album’s composition—the off-beat piano cascades in “Death By A Thousand Cuts” and the pulsating synth of “Cruel Summer” hat Taylor seems like she’s never been better. She’s unburdened by love, and that explosive happiness makes itself present across this record.
  25. Sep 1, 2019
    2
    A few good tracks but mostly just another bland pop record. The song Lover is pretty good but there really isn’t much growth since Taylor’s previous albums. Country Taylor will always be superior.
  26. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    found it to be a bit stale, repetitive, and not much going on sonically. it left a bad taste in my mouth.
  27. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    Not great at all I excepted something more than that but I can listen 2 of these songs
  28. Sep 5, 2019
    2
    Esse álbum faz a crescente carreira de Taylor voltar a estaca zero. É um retrocesso, dadas as músicas de temáticas vazias e infantis. Uma pena que as produções de Joel Little e Jack Antonoff tenham sido usadas a favor disso, mas nem mesmo esses produtores de calibre conseguiram salvar Swift de suas letras. Lover é um álbum para satisfazer os fãs da cantora; não há avanço, não há esmero,Esse álbum faz a crescente carreira de Taylor voltar a estaca zero. É um retrocesso, dadas as músicas de temáticas vazias e infantis. Uma pena que as produções de Joel Little e Jack Antonoff tenham sido usadas a favor disso, mas nem mesmo esses produtores de calibre conseguiram salvar Swift de suas letras. Lover é um álbum para satisfazer os fãs da cantora; não há avanço, não há esmero, não há intenção. Apenas visão para vendas. Lamentável Expand
  29. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    I heard every songs and really it's like a album for sleep. I adore Taylor, but this album is bad.
  30. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    Comparando sus últimos trabajos. Desde su inicio en el pop. No hay nada nuevo en su música y en su ritmo. En la manera de componer las letras es increíble. Pero nos ha traído el mismo álbum una y otra vez.
  31. Aug 31, 2019
    2
    I am pretty upset tbh with how this album turned out. It was going strong with me and you need to calm down and then the archer came and I was like oh I do not like this at all and then lover came and I loved it then the album dropped. It was so sad to see the album be so bland and boring I love Taylor but this was a disappointment especially seeing as her last 2 albums were such a hugeI am pretty upset tbh with how this album turned out. It was going strong with me and you need to calm down and then the archer came and I was like oh I do not like this at all and then lover came and I loved it then the album dropped. It was so sad to see the album be so bland and boring I love Taylor but this was a disappointment especially seeing as her last 2 albums were such a huge bop this to me was just a flop. Still streaming the song lover though. Expand
  32. Sep 1, 2019
    2
    I can't feel any progress
    and the album don't have any amazing song
    just so so
  33. Sep 27, 2019
    2
    Taylor Swift has shown some potential before....there’s some projects by her that I really find solid, inventive, and well crafted. 1989 was the last album by her that I could tolerate. I really admired her throwback to the old pop sound. Reputation was a huge misstep that just seemed like an album that was playing catch up to some other artists. Now Lover comes in, and while not all songsTaylor Swift has shown some potential before....there’s some projects by her that I really find solid, inventive, and well crafted. 1989 was the last album by her that I could tolerate. I really admired her throwback to the old pop sound. Reputation was a huge misstep that just seemed like an album that was playing catch up to some other artists. Now Lover comes in, and while not all songs are irrelevant, the album comes off as a cash grab. I do however, have to give my respect to it’s production. Expand
  34. May 29, 2020
    2
    Very generic. Not many unique words. Too many tracks. Nothing memorable. A new low point for a seemingly unstoppable star.
  35. Jul 24, 2020
    2
    The production seems a little all over the place.She tried to make a hybrid of 1989 and Red but ends up getting it wrong in the end.
  36. Jun 27, 2020
    2
    Overrated. If an unfamous female singer sings these songs, nobody knows and listens this album. A bad job
  37. Nov 27, 2020
    2
    Imperdonable lo que hizo Taylor con este álbum, excepto los singles no hay por donde coger el resto del disco. Viniendo de una era como reputation y pese a que ya era hora de que sacara algo de este estilo, se queda muy atrás del nivel pop que traía con los anteriores.
  38. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    Another overrated generic pop garbage, i do not understand the positive reviews, it deserves the mixed reviews
  39. Aug 23, 2019
    1
    Too long, so a lot of the songs are unnecessary. Also they all kinda sound the same and since they're bad, that's a terrible thing to happen.
  40. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    This is even worse than Reputation, which is honestly quite an achievement. There really are no songs that I liked. Some are decent, but most of this album is just garbage, and the fact that it's 18 tracks just makes it even more exhausting.

    Musically, there's nothing even slightly adventurous or creative here. Everything is just by-the-numbers pop music. The songs also lack cohesion.
    This is even worse than Reputation, which is honestly quite an achievement. There really are no songs that I liked. Some are decent, but most of this album is just garbage, and the fact that it's 18 tracks just makes it even more exhausting.

    Musically, there's nothing even slightly adventurous or creative here. Everything is just by-the-numbers pop music. The songs also lack cohesion. It sounds like every song was written by a different group of producers.

    Lyrically, this is Taylor Swift at her worst. Everything is so literal and straightforward, and there's so much repetition. So many of these songs sound like she cranked out the lyrics in like 10 minutes. Not to mention, some of the songs are straight up campy and childish. Me!, You Need to Calm Down, and Paper Rings are perfect examples of this.

    Overall, this failed to meet my already low expectations. It's inoffensive, cookie-cutter pop music, and it honestly sucks. Worst album I've listened to in a long time.
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  41. Sep 14, 2019
    1
    What in hell is this? Are we suppose to like this? The death of her reputation comes also the death of her song writing
  42. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    Unfortunately, all of the album's songs sound the same. I can find no artistic growth or variety on her recent albums since they all have the same pop sound (her other album, Reputation, included some surprising -for her style- songs, but that was it).
    The only song I find interesting is miss Americana & the heartbreak prince.
  43. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    This is Taylor's worst album, unfortunately the singer has brought a horrible job with poor quality songs, and always bring the same theme on all albums talking about her ex boyfriends, Taylor please stop this horrible.
  44. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    This is simply the album of the year, the productions are exceptional. Swift is an amazing songwriter, the lyrics are so good. Great work!
  45. Aug 26, 2019
    1
    This album is so fake, dumb. Taylor even copy Hillary Duff and Beyonce. So overrated
  46. Sep 2, 2019
    1
    平庸、流俗且毫无新意的一张专辑,甚至一首能听的歌都没有。
  47. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    I didn’t like all the songs, 4 of them are good, like the first 4 the rest is a skip
  48. Aug 23, 2019
    1
    Long album, more of the same. Filler songs with bad production and shallow lyrics talking about lovers
  49. Aug 25, 2019
    1
    Lover was a disappointment. First coming out with terrible singles (ME! was one of the worst top 2s of this year), and then disappointing in the album. Despite the four singles I was ready for Taylor to come through with what seemed to be a throwback to 1989. There were two and a half songs I liked on this album: Afterglow, and Miss Americana & the Heartbreak Prince. Cruel Summer and a fewLover was a disappointment. First coming out with terrible singles (ME! was one of the worst top 2s of this year), and then disappointing in the album. Despite the four singles I was ready for Taylor to come through with what seemed to be a throwback to 1989. There were two and a half songs I liked on this album: Afterglow, and Miss Americana & the Heartbreak Prince. Cruel Summer and a few other songs I began to like somewhat, but after a couple listenings the production and effect Taylor put on her belts and more difficult vocals ruined it for me. The songwriting on some of these songs was phenomenal (Miss Americana) but at times lazy (London Boy on twitter). The album wasn’t cohesive and was way too long for its quality. Expand
  50. Sep 6, 2019
    1
    PIECE of **** From the biginning to the End the only remarkable songs are The Man and Paper rings.
  51. Sep 5, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. this album too sweet, too long i couldnt even listen to it without skipoing, and there are similar boring songs. I can get behind her random support for the LGBTQ community, but I can’t forget how she was mute all through her career, and now suddenly she got a new colorful era and is an advocator. I give that note bc only 1 song for me is ok Expand
  52. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Bueno pero muy repetitivo y llega a aburrir REPUTATION es mucho mejor, le falto mas producción al álbum Expand
  53. Aug 23, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Pior álbum dela , mesma coisa de sempre !!! Saturei Taylor tem que madurece Expand
  54. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    Boring album, all the musics seem to be the same, the letters is so bad, and i don’t liked
  55. Aug 23, 2019
    1
    One of the worst albums ever! 0 creativity, same old songs and all of them are genetic pop & sampled songs’
  56. Aug 23, 2019
    1
    Absolute rubbish album this is. This album is just an apology for how bad reputation was but feels unoriginal and lazy. This album has themes of romance, social issues and dreams that reminds me of Madonnas album in 1986 True Blue. Taylor’s vocals are overly processed with autotune and reverb. Her songwriting is overly formulaic and isn’t as poignant as her 2012 album Red and theAbsolute rubbish album this is. This album is just an apology for how bad reputation was but feels unoriginal and lazy. This album has themes of romance, social issues and dreams that reminds me of Madonnas album in 1986 True Blue. Taylor’s vocals are overly processed with autotune and reverb. Her songwriting is overly formulaic and isn’t as poignant as her 2012 album Red and the production isn’t as cohesive as 1989. The lead single ME! Is the most immature song she has ever put out and You need to calm down is just a song to cash in for the LGBTQ community and be an icon which she is not unlike Madonna, Kylie minogue or lady Gaga. This album deserves all the hate as Taylor is a country queen not a pop queen. While the album has nice moments such as the song bout her mom and the archer . The album is Ames’s and further proves that pop music isn’t Taylor Swifts forte o Expand
  57. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    This album made for 13 year old kids, nothing new here. Kids pop making Radio hit these days.
  58. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    ummmm... first off let me say i am a huge taylor swift fan but come on.... how is THIS the highest meta critic user score album
  59. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    possibly the worst album ive ever heard, my ears really hurt and honestly i wish i could reverse time to change events so i would have never have had to listen to this.
  60. Aug 24, 2019
    1
    Meandering, lazy, uninteresting pop music lacking all creativity and drive. Succeeds only in having very few catchy moments. There is no deviation in strong structure or development.
  61. Aug 25, 2019
    1
    An abysmal Album experience. Her songwriting has been on a downslide since Red, Lover was an overly long slog and many songs felt the same. I have little desire to return to any of the tracks.
    Both the production and lyrics were lacking but it's at least better than reputation, so she has that going for her.
  62. Aug 25, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Reputation is better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Expand
  63. Aug 26, 2019
    1
    Absolutely horrible pop music. This is the stuff that makes you wanna turn of the radio. Keep this faaaaaar away from me.
  64. Aug 30, 2019
    1
    well, i was expecting só much more of this album, all songs look alike and, despite taylor being a master at writing, the sound of the tracks didn't convince me at all
  65. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    Do not purchase this album. She did NOT serve. Typical boring discography. But it’s whatever.
  66. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Bad bad I don’t understand how this woman is still making music this album is terrible wow
  67. Aug 30, 2019
    1
    Worst album of the year, just a disgusting set of sounds. Nasty sounding and primitive texts.
  68. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Es un álbum básico y monótono, nada interesante parece el álbum de villancicos para niños de 3 años, es mucho color aska.
  69. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    this album is pure bubblegum pop without any deep background. not a nice piece of work. disappointed, taylor is so much better.
  70. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    i wanted a new album from Taylor Swift. But I don't feel like this album is Taylor's. Sadly this is a mixture of music from other pop stars. I miss the old Taylor. But what can I do?? She'd already said she is dead. Probably the new Taylor forgot the taste of her guitar and piano. All she wanted to give us are songs decorated with electronic instruments.
  71. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    I dont like this album is the same ordinary music i dont know how she has a grammy , maybe people dont have taste .
  72. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Sweetie this wasn’t it at all from the ugly intro all the way to the raggedy beginning I’m not entirely sure what she was doing but someone told her she was fly, beautiful but she’s none of the sort.
  73. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Stuff like this is why I don't listen to music on the radio anymore. I've already heard it all before.
  74. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Ninguna canción sobresale, se me hacen iguales a excepción de los singles, de ahí en fuera todo es malo
  75. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    All the songs sound the same. I only liked ME!
    Taylor Swift is overrated.
    Sorry.
  76. Aug 31, 2019
    1
    Honestly not a fan of this new ablum... Very disappointing thought it'd be atleast okay. What happened to good music these days.
  77. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    Um what is this... half of the songs are skips and are boring and a third are just horrible. Not revisiting this anytime soon
  78. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. This album is not her best album Her best album is red second best album is 1989 But this one just not bad Expand
  79. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    This album is just ok but I've heard it now and does not give me a feeling that I want to return back to listen again.
  80. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    Muito infantil! E estou apenas retribuindo o que os fans dela fazem. Bjssssssssss
  81. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    i personally wanted to see her growth and perhaps getting a little mature in this album but yet again she talks about her boyfriend and heartbreaks.
  82. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    me! is the most insufferable song i think i’ve ever heard. whoever allowed that to be written and produced i don’t know. the album itself is so expected and bland. 0 negative reviews? somethings up.
  83. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    what the hecc this is the worst album i've ever listening. my ears are burning. taylor flop.
  84. Sep 1, 2019
    1
    Basura literalmente basura, solo a sus mierderos fans que se conforman con la misma mierda cliché de siempre le puede gustar está cagada. Anyways stream city lights.
  85. Ec0
    Sep 1, 2019
    1
    Just sounds the same as her stuff from the pst five years ... has a good voice so I’m giving her a one but otherwise ... tasteless and cheesy beats and lyrics that we have heard before
  86. Sep 3, 2019
    1
    the songs are too generic and lyrics are based from highschool fics. No vocal improvements too. Needs to do Nursery songs.
  87. Sep 14, 2019
    1
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view. Unfortunately, Taylor Swift has once again under delivered. Ever since red, Taylor has been really taking a hit when it comes to the fact that she has not grown as an artist or matured in her music or artisty. She feels even more clueless than the 16 year old girl she started off as with self titled. I genuinely did not enjoy a single track off of this album besides "you need to calm down" and that was only because of the hook. It also didn't help that Taylor was trying to "get the gay vote" with this album. Them there are the ridiculous actions of her fans. They are so utterly childish and this album goes to show the kind of audience she is pandering to. Taylor Swift is a strong, intelligent woman with great writing skills and she simply has not prooven this to the public in a long time but people choose to eat it up. I really hope that Taylor will start to grow as an artist again rather than the decline of the last couple of albums. It didn't help that she pumped this album out to push reputation under the rug, an album that very much failed to meet my expectations. The old Taylor is definitely dead and it seems it is for the worst. Expand
  88. Sep 24, 2019
    1
    Taylor Swift, esse álbum é tudo ruim vai da capa, para as letras como vc tem orgulho disso
  89. Feb 14, 2020
    1
    Boring mediocre songs and autotuned vocals
    It's her worst album ever it's so wack
  90. Feb 16, 2020
    1
    Stream changes by the king , i did the same thing , stay mad and pressed
  91. Sep 16, 2020
    1
    Un álbum mas que solo habla de amor y de hombres y celos muy aburrido mas de lo mismo en letras y no tienen canciones buenas no entiendo porque tiene tan buenas criticas.
  92. Sep 16, 2020
    1
    Un álbum aburrido solo habla de amor no me gusto ni sus melodías ni letras ni ritmos nada es un álbum muy aburrido.
  93. Sep 30, 2020
    1
    Es un álbum pésimo que solo habla de amor de parejas como todas sus canciones muy aburrido en letras y mensajes no me gusto para nada.
  94. Nov 4, 2021
    1
    Bad, generic music. No artistic vision. In addition, the voice of taylor is not put forward much
  95. Mar 5, 2023
    1
    Outro álbum igual aos outros, pouquíssimas músicas são realmente escutáveis.
  96. Sep 1, 2019
    0
    I prefer her country music era. Lover is a statement but sorry I really love fearless
  97. Aug 31, 2019
    0
    Swift continues to write juvenile and cloying songs. Nothing remarkable here. Just an incohesive record and Getaway Car rehashes.
  98. Aug 27, 2019
    0
    This review contains spoilers, click expand to view.
  99. Aug 23, 2019
    0
    Boring and WAY TOO LONG. Carly Rae Jepsen wants her sound back, I want my time back
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79

Generally favorable reviews - based on 26 Critic Reviews

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 23 out of 26
  2. Negative: 0 out of 26
  1. Sep 9, 2019
    70
    It’s an album that screams out for an editor, but when it hits the right notes, it demonstrates just why Taylor Swift is one of the biggest pop stars in the world.
  2. Sep 3, 2019
    70
    Ultimately, Lover is overstuffed and meandering, but serves as a positive reprieve from her past struggles in the public eye, and represents an artist at the peak of her creativity, power, and—one hopes—continued romantic bliss.
  3. Sep 3, 2019
    80
    Lover is a fabulous record, full of super-fun standout pop hits that make your heart burst. It oozes with Swift’s much more palatable upbeat sass. She’s in love and also thinking about different kinds of love.